Was it mean for me to email a woman I don't know who my boyfriend had naked pictures of?

I've never met her but he says they've never been more than friends. I found naked pics of her viewed that day on his computer with a man who really looks like my boyfriend but there's not enough of him to tell. He says they were accidentally sent to him and that the man is her now-husband. I finally accepted this answer but deep down I think it's him. I just want the truth so I emailed her. I wasn't mean at all but I think maybe I shouldn't have.
Was it mean for me to email a woman I don't know who my boyfriend had naked pictures of?
I'd follow your gut b/c most of the time it's right. I think you have the right to know, so emailing her a polite message is totally fine. Just to clear things up. I know most people will think that your breaking trust and all that crap, but if they were in the same situation, I'm sure they'd like to know from the other "person" on what really happened.
Reply:It sounds like you already know the answer to this one. But its obviously not a mistake that he was sent those pics. Why did he still have them if they were sent by accident? Its doubtful you will hear back from her - but dump his butt now. It really doesn't matter what she says anyways.
Reply:You did the right thing, if it is him in the pictures you should know.


He is dumb for leaving them where you could find them if he wants to keep it private.
Reply:Well, I think to e-mail somebody that really doesn't give a damn is pretty stupid when your boyfriend is the one that has the explaining to do. He KNOWS what he has at home and if he cares anything about you, wouldn't do anything to jeopardize that. You are mad at or trying to get at the wrong person. If she told you something, and you don't know her, then, will you believe her over him? If you want the truth, you need to look for it from him. If you believe him, then, there is no reason for the e-mail in the first place. If you don't then, you have a problem with your TRUST factor and maybe don't need to be with him anyway. Either way....that's messed up, and you need to find out what YOU have and if you want him; not what and who he's doing it to! Girl, life is too short for this crap, and evidently you are insecure in relationship and you don't KNOW you're man! Good luck with that if that's what you want!
Reply:Oooh, you go girl. Let us know what she replies!
Reply:Strong confident woman im glad you did it youll never feel comfortable till you know whats really going on
Reply:you have a right to know.